Letting Go To Move Forward: The Hidden Work of Regeneration

Christine Martin, holistic management and regenerative agriculture coach, facilitator, speaker, frustrated, scared, confused, woman in regenerative agriculture

This morning, I came across a message that stopped me in my tracks:

“You cannot step into your future while holding chains from the past.
Release the weight of guilt, pain, and resentment.
Forgive, not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.
Your future is too important to be delayed by yesterdays.”
— Healing Energy Tools

As I read it, I couldn’t help but think — this applies to land stewards just as much as anyone on a healing journey.

We humans carry so much weight.
The guilt of what we didn’t know when we started managing land.
The shame of decisions that caused harm when our intentions were good.
The resentment toward systems, weather, markets — or even ourselves — for not being “farther along.”

And all that emotional energy? It’s not just mental clutter. It’s energy that could be fueling creativity, clarity, and the steady implementation of our regenerative plans.

When we hold onto the past, we fragment our energy. Part of us is still replaying old stories — “If only I’d rotated sooner… planned better… trusted differently.”

But you can’t regenerate land from a fragmented state.
Regeneration begins within.

If we want thriving soil, animals, businesses, and lives, we have to start by freeing ourselves from the emotional chains that bind us to yesterday’s regrets.

This is the human side of land stewardship. We talk about managing complexity — ecosystem functions, grazing plans, finances, and relationships — but we rarely talk about managing the inner landscape that shapes every decision we make.

I see this often in coaching: a rancher has the right plan on paper but carries guilt from a past drought decision that went wrong. Their mind says “implement,” but their heart says “I can’t handle another mistake.”
That’s the bottleneck.

We can’t collaborate with nature when we’re at war with ourselves.
Forgiveness — for ourselves, others, or circumstances — isn’t just emotional work. It’s strategic work for regeneration.

Because when you release guilt, you free up energy.
When you release resentment, you open to new perspectives.
When you forgive, you make space for creativity and trust to return.

So today, I invite you to pause.
Ask yourself:
What guilt or shame am I still carrying?
What do I need to forgive to move forward?
What peace am I ready to claim so my energy can go toward creation, not regret?

Your future — and your land — are too important to be delayed by yesterdays.


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